我国近代教育家陈鹤琴先生说得好：“习惯养得好，终生受其益，习惯养不好，终生受其累。”
今天与一个学生聊天得知，这个孩子做事总是习惯于磨磨蹭蹭。
譬如：每次考试前，原本制定好了复习计划，可是头脑中总是在想，明天再开始实施吧；每天的作业，通常也要一拖再拖，直到没有时间再拖为止；甚至在一些生活小事上，也喜欢磨蹭拖拉，起床、洗衣、整理床铺、打扫房间等等，做任何事情都不能够雷厉风行，没有时间观念，缺乏紧迫感。
“I am always putting things off, What should I do?”She asked me.
I told her,,,
Everyone has a habit. Maybe it is a good habit, or it is a bad habit. But you’re in the habit of “putting things off.”
How to change the habit? I think you should try to do it like this.
Firstly, when you face with a challenging task, you should try to break it down into a number of smaller or more manageable pieces ---start with a part. And then you can solve each part step by step until to finish the task as a whole.
Secondly, you should set a timetable. A timetable is a kind of pressure to help you get rid of the habit of “putting things off.” It can help you pay all attention to the task and think of any ways to complete it.
Thirdly, you should also tell your friends or your teachers that you have a big task to work on and ask them to remind you of it. If you fail not because of other reasons but because of putting things off, you would be embarrassed.
贪图享受是人类的通病，现实生活中，每个人或多或少的都有“拖延”的不良习惯。
每当人们要付出劳动时；要做出某项事情的决策时，都习惯为自己找出一些借口或理由，或许是为了安慰自己；或许是想让自己感觉舒服一些；也或许是想给自己减轻压力。
面对这种情况，有的人会在瞬间很果断的战胜自己的惰性意念，积极主动的去迎接挑战；有的人则会深陷于“挑战”的泥潭中，畏畏缩缩，不知所措，长期下去就会养成拖拉的坏习惯，一旦习惯成了自然，其后果不堪设想......
Please remember, ONE TODAY IS WORTH TWO TOMORROW!
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